The Masterful Parenting Podcast - Heal Your Childhood and Parent Better Through Relational Parenting

Anne Alvares is a parent coach, educator, and the founder of the Masterful Parenting Program, known for helping families build stronger, healthier relationships through relational parenting and healing from childhood wounds.

🧠 Background & Experience

  • Anne has over 20 years of experience working with families as a school counsellor, teacher, and parent coach.

  • She has spent 15+ years supporting teens and their parents, giving her deep insight into emotional development and adolescent challenges.

  • She’s also a mother of two, bringing firsthand parenting experience to her work.

🌱 Her Story & Approach

Anne’s coaching is shaped by her personal healing journey—she grew up experiencing childhood pain, including abuse, controlling parenting, and being parentified. This inspired her to heal those patterns and not repeat them with her own children.

Her mission is to help parents understand how their own childhood experiences influence their parenting, and to guide them in building confidence, connection, and emotional awareness.

💡 What She Teaches

Anne specializes in:

  • Relational Parenting: Prioritizing connection and understanding over control.

  • Healing from childhood pain so parents don’t unconsciously repeat old patterns.

  • Practical strategies to strengthen communication and connection with children.

  • Support through one-on-one coaching, group programs, and online courses focused on emotional regulation and relational skills.

🎧 Public Presence

Anne also hosts the Masterful Parenting Podcast, where she shares insights into how parents can heal, understand triggers, and foster healthy, connected relationships with their children.

❤️ What Makes Her Different

Rather than simple tips or behavior modification, Anne’s approach blends emotional understanding, self-awareness, and healing, helping parents not just change behavior, but transform relationships.

In short, Anne Alvares is a coach who helps parents move beyond outdated patterns and cultivate calmer, more connected family lives rooted in understanding, healing, and relational awareness. 

Episodes

Jul 21, 2025

25 min

Are you aware that social media can impact our kids' mental health?
 
Sorcha Newby is a psychological researcher and university lecturer whose work explores how social media impacts children’s wellbeing—particularly sleep, anxiety, and emotional development in 10–12-year-olds. Her research highlights the shortcomings of current social media policies in protecting young users. Alongside lecturing in psychology, Sorcha is committed to empowering parents with
 
knowledge and practical tools to navigate the digital world confidently. As a mother of two, she brings both academic expertise and lived experience to help families build healthier digital habits.
 
Sorcha Newby
Psychological Researcher | Lecturer | Digital Wellbeing Advocate
 
LinkedIn: http://linkedin.com/in/sorchanewby
TikTok: @sorchapsychology
Agent: Great British Speakers 
 
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For those of you who don’t know me, I’m Anne Alvares.  I came from childhood pain.  I suffered abuse, controlling parents, and was parentified.  My healing journey began almost 30 years ago when I first told my story.  When I became a mother, I was determined to heal and not repeat the patterns of my childhood in my own parenting with my children.
 
Now, I teach parents how to foster healthy relationships with their kids.  When we uncover our childhood story and become aware of our triggers, we can begin to heal and change.  When we do this, our children thrive and we can feel good about our parenting.
 
Let me help you to heal and to change.
 
Reach out for support at masterfulparenting@outlook.com. Free 30 minute helping call. Book it - it's free.
 
My mission is to help parents.
Much love,
 
Anne Alvares, Parent Coach, School Counsellor, Mom of Two
 
Contact:
👉 Website: https://www.annealvares.com/
 
Calendar to Book Your FREE 30 minute strategy session: https://calendly.com/annealvares/meet-up
 
LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/anne-alvares-parent-coach-school-counsellor-teacher/
Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/masterfulparenting 
Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/masterfulparenting/ 
Podcast: https://masterfulparenting.podbean.com/ 
 
👉 https://www.youtube.com/@masterfulparenting
 
School of HumanKind: https://www.schoolofhumankind.com/library
 
#masterfulparenting #parenting #parentingjourney #childhood #abuse #neglect #healing #love #ourkids #worthy #deserving #feelgood 

Jul 21, 2025

25 min

Jul 14, 2025

24 min

Want to learn how to protect your kids from sexual abuse?
 
Listen to Leena Mehta.
Leena Mehta is a registered clinical counsellor and an approved clinical supervisor. She is the founder of At Ease Counseling and sees clients in person in Burnaby and online. She supports individuals, youth, and adults with a range of issues, including anxiety, depression, abuse, trauma, self-esteem, life transitions, and grief and loss. She is trained in Acceptance Commitment Therapy, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, Dialectical Behavioural Therapy, Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing, and Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy.
She also provides couples counselling in Burnaby and online in BC. Finally, she is an approved clinical supervisor who supervises counsellors.
 
Here are the questions we cover:
Why won’t teens share with their parents?
Why is it important to get your teen’s permission when sharing information about them?
How do we protect our kids from sexual abuse?
How do we help our children to heal from sexual abuse?
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For those of you who don’t know me, I’m Anne Alvares.  I came from childhood pain.  I suffered abuse, controlling parents, and was parentified.  My healing journey began almost 30 years ago when I first told my story.  When I became a mother, I was determined to heal and not repeat the patterns of my childhood in my own parenting with my children.
 
Now, I teach parents how to foster healthy relationships with their kids.  When we uncover our childhood story and become aware of our triggers, we can begin to heal and change.  When we do this, our children thrive and we can feel good about our parenting.
 
Let me help you to heal and to change.
 
Reach out for support at masterfulparenting@outlook.com. Free 30 minute helping call. Book it - it's free.
 
My mission is to help parents.
Much love,
 
Anne Alvares, Parent Coach, School Counsellor, Mom of Two
 
Contact:
👉 Website: https://www.annealvares.com/
 
Calendar to Book Your FREE 30 minute strategy session: https://calendly.com/annealvares/meet-up
 
LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/anne-alvares-parent-coach-school-counsellor-teacher/
Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/masterfulparenting 
Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/masterfulparenting/ 
Podcast: https://masterfulparenting.podbean.com/ 
 
👉 https://www.youtube.com/@masterfulparenting
 
School of HumanKind: https://www.schoolofhumankind.com/library
 
#masterfulparenting #parenting #parentingjourney #childhood #abuse #neglect #healing #love #ourkids #worthy #deserving #feelgood 

Jul 14, 2025

24 min

Jul 7, 2025

22 min

Let's do a deep dive into childhood pain and how it shows up in our parenting.
 
This is my interview by Dale L' Ecuyer.  Thank you, Dale!
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For those of you who don’t know me, I’m Anne Alvares.  I came from childhood pain.  I suffered abuse, controlling parents, and was parentified.  My healing journey began almost 30 years ago when I first told my story.  When I became a mother, I was determined to heal and not repeat the patterns of my childhood in my own parenting with my children.
 
Now, I teach parents how to foster healthy relationships with their kids.  When we uncover our childhood story and become aware of our triggers, we can begin to heal and change.  When we do this, our children thrive and we can feel good about our parenting.
 
Let me help you to heal and to change.
 
Reach out for support at masterfulparenting@outlook.com. Free 30 minute helping call. Book it - it's free.
 
My mission is to help parents.
Much love,
 
Anne Alvares, Parent Coach, School Counsellor, Mom of Two
 
Contact:
👉 Website: https://www.annealvares.com/
 
Calendar to Book Your FREE 30 minute strategy session: https://calendly.com/annealvares/meet-up
 
LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/anne-alvares-parent-coach-school-counsellor-teacher/
Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/masterfulparenting 
Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/masterfulparenting/ 
Podcast: https://masterfulparenting.podbean.com/ 
 
👉 https://www.youtube.com/@masterfulparenting
 
School of HumanKind: https://www.schoolofhumankind.com/library
 
#masterfulparenting #parenting #parentingjourney #childhood #abuse #neglect #healing #love #ourkids #worthy #deserving #feelgood 

Jul 7, 2025

22 min

Jun 30, 2025

23 min

Dagmara is a Montreal-based mother of two, who is committed to children’s education and emotional well-being. Born in Poland, and living in Canada, Dagmara Sitek wears many hats—a mom, a wife, and a digital marketer in her 9-to-5 world.
 
Once a kid who loved drawing and writing, Dagmara Sitek never thought about writing a ‘real book’ until now.  She jumped into writing children’s books because she realized something important – not all kids get a fair shot at life. Her debut as an author merges childhood passions with a new mission – to bring hope and awareness to children’s struggles.
 
Where to find Dagmara's books:
www.couragetales.com
 
How to purchase her course: Empathy Heroes Class
https://7b1af1d98-s9yw8xqry0o-34qg.hop.clickbank.net
 
Disclosure:  I am an affiliate for this course.
 
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For those of you who don’t know me, I’m Anne Alvares.  I came from childhood pain.  I suffered abuse, controlling parents, and was parentified.  My healing journey began almost 30 years ago when I first told my story.  When I became a mother, I was determined to heal and not repeat the patterns of my childhood in my own parenting with my children.
 
Now, I teach parents how to foster healthy relationships with their kids.  When we uncover our childhood story and become aware of our triggers, we can begin to heal and change.  When we do this, our children thrive and we can feel good about our parenting.
 
Let me help you to heal and to change.
 
Reach out for support at masterfulparenting@outlook.com. Free 30 minute helping call. Book it - it's free.
 
My mission is to help parents.
Much love,
 
Anne Alvares, Parent Coach, School Counsellor, Mom of Two
 
Contact:
👉 Website: https://www.annealvares.com/
 
 
Calendar to Book Your FREE 30 minute strategy session: https://calendly.com/annealvares/meet-up
 
 
LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/anne-alvares-parent-coach-school-counsellor-teacher/
 
Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/masterfulparenting
 
Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/masterfulparenting/
 
Podcast: https://masterfulparenting.podbean.com/
 
 
 
👉 https://www.youtube.com/@masterfulparenting
 
 
School of HumanKind: https://www.schoolofhumankind.com/library
 
 
#masterfulparenting #parenting #parentingjourney #childhood #abuse #neglect #healing #love #ourkids #worthy #deserving #feelgood 
 

Jun 30, 2025

23 min

Jun 23, 2025

32 min

I'm going deep and sharing my life challenges.  My story is heartbreaking, honest, and triumphant.
These are some of the questions I answer in my interview on Cynthia Hammer's podcast, Find The ADHD Girls.
 
What was your childhood experience?
How did Masterful Parenting come into being?
How do you help parents?
How can parents help their children, especially of they had ADHD or are neurodiverse?
Thank you, @Cynthia Hammer for giving me the opportunity to share my story.
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For those of you who don’t know me, I’m Anne Alvares.  I came from childhood pain.  I suffered abuse, controlling parents, and was parentified.  My healing journey began almost 30 years ago when I first told my story.  When I became a mother, I was determined to heal and not repeat the patterns of my childhood in my own parenting with my children.
 
Now, I teach parents how to foster healthy relationships with their kids.  When we uncover our childhood story and become aware of our triggers, we can begin to heal and change.  When we do this, our children thrive and we can feel good about our parenting.
 
Let me help you to heal and to change.
 
Reach out for support at masterfulparenting@outlook.com. Free 30 minute helping call. Book it - it's free.
 
My mission is to help parents.
Much love,
 
Anne Alvares, Parent Coach, School Counsellor, Mom of Two
Contact:
👉 Website: https://www.annealvares.com/
 
Calendar to Book Your FREE 15 minute strategy session: https://calendly.com/annealvares/meet-up
 
LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/anne-alvares-parent-coach-school-counsellor-teacher/
Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/masterfulparenting
 
Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/masterfulparenting/
 
Podcast: https://masterfulparenting.podbean.com/ 
 PLEASE SUBSCRIBE:
👉 https://www.youtube.com/@masterfulparenting
School of HumanKind: https://www.schoolofhumankind.com/library
#masterfulparenting #parenting #parentingjourney #childhood #abuse #neglect #healing #love #ourkids #worthy #deserving #feelgood
 
 
 

Jun 23, 2025

32 min

Jun 16, 2025

34 min

Two parent coaches, Anjali Cchopra (India) and Anne Alvares (Canada) team up together to answer our parents' questions on the most challenging stages of child development: Teens and Toddlers.
This episode, Part 3 of the Parenting Question Series on Teens and Toddlers, addresses a crucial query: "How do I socialize my child?"
Parents, have you found yourself pondering this question? Tune in as Anjali and Anne provide valuable insights and guidance on this prevalent parenting challenge.
 
Find out what to do when our children struggle with friendships.
Looking forward to helping you, Parents.
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Want to learn how to be a better parent, stop the arguing, and help your children thrive? I can give you the tools. I have over 16 years of experience working with teens and their families as a high school counsellor and I'm the mom of two so I understand the challenges.  I teach parents relational parenting so they can foster healthy relationships with their children.
 
I have a parenting course and parent coaching program (9 weeks long) offered digitally with weekly support.
 
Reach out for support at masterfulparenting@outlook.com. Free 30 minute helping call. Book it - it's free.
Contact Us:
👉 Website: https://www.annealvares.com/
LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/anne-alvares-parent-coach-school-counsellor-teacher/
 
Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/masterfulparenting
 
Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/@masterfulparenting
 
 👉 https://www.youtube.com/@masterfulparenting
 
School of HumanKind: https://www.schoolofhumankind.com/library
 
My mission is to help parents.
 
Much love,
 
Anne Alvares, Parent Coach, School Counsellor, Mom of Two
 
#masterfulparenting #parentcoach #parenting #parentbetter #ourkids #parentingtips #parentingadvice #parentinghacks #parentingjourney #childcare #children #child #childhood #parenthood
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Anjali Chopra is a Parenting Strategist/ Empowering Educators | Motivational Speaker/ Coach /Trainer /Preschool Consultant/ Co-founder/Founder/Spiritual realm explorer from Noida, Uttar Pradesh, India.
Contact Anjali
linkedin.com/in/anjali-cchopra-0480a7145
Email: anjalichopra02@gmail.com
 
 

Jun 16, 2025

34 min

Jun 9, 2025

22 min

This is the webinar I did for the School of Human Kind in May 2025.
 
Are you mindful of "The Energy We Bring Into Our Homes"?Join Anne Alvares as she reminds us how important our energy is when we are at home with the ones we love the most.  Let's become more aware and conscious of the energy we bring and learn how our energy influences our children.
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For those of you who don’t know me, I’m Anne Alvares.  I came from childhood pain.  I suffered abuse, controlling parents, and was parentified.  My healing journey began almost 30 years ago when I first told my story.  When I became a mother, I was determined to heal and not repeat the patterns of my childhood in my own parenting with my children.
 
Now, I teach parents how to foster healthy relationships with their kids.  When we uncover our childhood story and become aware of our triggers, we can begin to heal and change.  When we do this, our children thrive and we can feel good about our parenting.
 
Let me help you to heal and to change.
 
Reach out for support at masterfulparenting@outlook.com. Free 30 minute helping call. Book it - it's free.
 
My mission is to help parents.
 
Contact:
👉 Website: https://www.annealvares.com/
 
Calendar to Book Your FREE 30 minute strategy session: https://calendly.com/annealvares/meet-up
 
LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/anne-alvares-parent-coach-school-counsellor-teacher/
Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/masterfulparenting
 
Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/masterfulparenting/ 
 
Podcast: https://masterfulparenting.podbean.com/
 
 
👉 https://www.youtube.com/@masterfulparenting
 
 
School of HumanKind: https://www.schoolofhumankind.com/library
 
#masterfulparenting #parenting #parentingjourney #childhood #abuse #neglect #healing #love #ourkids #worthy #deserving #feelgood
 

Jun 9, 2025

22 min

Jun 2, 2025

25 min

Nicole Runyon, LMSW, is an esteemed psychotherapist, parent coach, and keynote speaker renowned for her expertise in child and adolescent mental health, backed by an extensive 21-year career in the field. She is also the author of the upcoming book Free to Fly: The Secret to Fostering Independence in the Next Generation, available in May 2025. Nicole’s uniqueness lies in the fact she has an uncanny ability to help adults get in the minds of today’s children and better understand them. Her extensive knowledge of technology’s impact on mental health, child development, and the intergenerational variations in parenting has made her a highly sought-after speaker who’s captivated small and large audiences alike.
 
Nicole’s invaluable insights have earned her significant recognition, leading to appearances in the media, where she shares her expertise on the effects of technology on child and adolescent mental well-being. Motivated by an unwavering passion for supporting children’s well-being and debunking the poor parenting advice that’s flooded our society, Nicole has dedicated her life’s work to empowering parents and educators to help children grow and mature into young adults with purpose, strength and confidence.
 
Contact Nicole:
https://nicolerunyon.com/free-to-fly/
https://nicolerunyon.com/free-to-fly-book-upgrade/
https://www.linkedin.com/in/nicolerunyonlmsw/
https://www.instagram.com/igenerationmentalhealth/
https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100091145239655
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Anne Alvares is a Parent Coach and Founder of the Masterful Parenting Program, a School Counsellor, Teacher and mom of two.  With her over 20 years working with families, Anne has a passion for helping parents to gain confidence in their parenting.  She has had over 17 years, working with teens, as a High School Counsellor.  She knows what teens need, what they struggle with, and how they think and feel about things.  In her Masterful Parenting Program, Anne helps parents to heal from their childhood pain so they can nurture healthy relationships with their children through relational parenting.  If you are interested in learning more about relational parenting, you can connect with Anne. 
 
**Book You FREE 30 minute Parenting Help Session**:https://calendly.com/annealvares
 
www.annealvares.com
https://www.facebook.com/masterfulparenting
https://www.youtube.com/@masterfulparenting
https://www.instagram.com/masterfulparenting/
https://masterfulparenting.podbean.com/
https://schoolofhumankind.com
 
#masterfulparenting #parentcoach #parenting #parentbetter #ourkids #parentingtips #parentingadvice #parentinghacks #parentingjourney #childcare #children #child #childhood #parenthood
 
 

Jun 2, 2025

25 min

May 26, 2025

28 min

Russ Solomon is a Parent Wellness Guide, board-certified music therapist, and lifelong spiritual practitioner who helps heart-centered parents of neurodivergent children transcend stress and overwhelm so they can show up in a strong and healthy space for their families.
Through his unique approach, Russ teaches parents how to get in tune with themselves, meaning their inner energy is aligned, so they feel calm, focused, and clear-thinking, especially during the tough moments.
With decades of experience and a personal journey raising a neurodivergent son, as well as growing up alongside family members with cerebral palsy, Down syndrome, and developmental disabilities, Russ brings both deep compassion and lived insight to his work.
In doing so, he helps parents reconnect with their own wisdom and create a family life that’s lighter, more joyful, and deeply aligned.
Get In Touch
https://www.raisingspecialneedskids.com/
InTune Parents – Russell
I help parents of kids with special needs access inner peace, create harmony at home and ignite their children’s potential, while eliminating chronic stress through the power of letting go so they can raise their family in a way that’s aligned with everyone’s highest good.
www.raisingspecialneedskids.com
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For those of you who don’t know me, I’m Anne Alvares.  I came from childhood pain.  I suffered abuse, controlling parents, and was parentified.  My healing journey began almost 30 years ago when I first told my story.  When I became a mother, I was determined to heal and not repeat the patterns of my childhood in my own parenting with my children.
 
Now, I teach parents how to foster healthy relationships with their kids.  When we uncover our childhood story and become aware of our triggers, we can begin to heal and change.  When we do this, our children thrive and we can feel good about our parenting.
 
Let me help you to heal and to change.
 
Reach out for support at masterfulparenting@outlook.com. Free 30 minute helping call. Book it - it's free.
 
My mission is to help parents.
#masterfulparenting #parenting #parentingjourney #childhood #abuse #neglect #healing #love
#ourkids #worthy #deserving #feelgood
Contact:
👉 Website: https://www.annealvares.com/
 
Calendar to Book Your FREE 30 minute strategy session: https://calendly.com/annealvares/meet-up
 
LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/anne-alvares-parent-coach-school-counsellor-teacher/
 
Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/masterfulparenting
 
Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/masterfulparenting/
 
Podcast: https://masterfulparenting.podbean.com/
 
 
👉 https://www.youtube.com/@masterfulparenting
 
 
School of HumanKind: https://www.schoolofhumankind.com/library
 
 

May 26, 2025

28 min

May 19, 2025

20 min

Internal Messages That Affect Our Parenting for School of Human Kind
 
This is Episode 81 on the Masterful Parenting Podcast which will air TODAY.
 
When we come from childhood pain, we internalize messages about our childhood experiences. These messages get carried into our adult lives until we get healing. 
 
As parents, we also tell ourselves stories about our children. Sometimes these stories can have a negative impact on our kids and limit them in their lives. We can learn how to change these stories and the words we use to help them grow into their uniqueness and gain confidence in themselves.
 
Let me show you how to begin healing and change your stories about your kids.
 
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For those of you who don’t know me, I’m Anne Alvares.  I came from childhood pain.  I suffered abuse, controlling parents, and was parentified.  My healing journey began almost 30 years ago when I first told my story.  When I became a mother, I was determined to heal and not repeat the patterns of my childhood in my own parenting with my children.
 
Now, I teach parents how to foster healthy relationships with their kids.  When we uncover our childhood story and become aware of our triggers, we can begin to heal and change.  When we do this, our children thrive and we can feel good about our parenting.
 
Let me help you to heal and to change.
 
Reach out for support at masterfulparenting@outlook.com. Free 30 minute helping call. Book it - it's free.
 
My mission is to help parents.
 
Much love,
Anne Alvares, Parent Coach, School Counsellor, Mom of Two
 
 
Contact:
👉 Website: https://www.annealvares.com/
 
Calendar to Book Your FREE 30 minute strategy session: https://calendly.com/annealvares/meet-up
 
LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/anne-alvares-parent-coach-school-counsellor-teacher/
Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/masterfulparenting 
Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/masterfulparenting/ 
Podcast: https://masterfulparenting.podbean.com/ 
 
👉 https://www.youtube.com/@masterfulparenting
 
School of HumanKind: https://www.schoolofhumankind.com/library
 
#masterfulparenting #parenting #parentingjourney #childhood #abuse #neglect #healing #love
#ourkids #worthy #deserving #feelgood
 

May 19, 2025

20 min

 Masterful Parenting

Does the pain from your childhood get in the way of you becoming the parent you want to be? Do you get triggered by what your child says and become over reactive and at times irrational. You are not alone, believe me. I too have carried pain from my childhood and I have struggled to be the parent I wanted to be. And parenting can be difficult at times. But what if I told you that there's a way to heal from your childhood pain, feel more energized, less reactive, more confident, and truly enjoy your children.



In the Masterful Parenting Program that runs for 8 weeks, I will help you become the parent you want to be. You will know how to heal from your own childhood, become more self-aware, learn how to connect better, and ways to communicate that touches your child's heart and ultimately have a healthy relationship with your child. I have helped many parents, as a high school counsellor, and I am also the mother of two boys, ages 23 and 13. My healing has come from by parenting and yours can, too.



If you want to heal, feel good about your parenting, less tired, more connected, and more appreciated by your kids, message me for a free 30 minute helping session and we will make a plan!



I truly believe parents can heal and raise healthy children and in doing this we will change the world. Let's do this!

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